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  • It’s not wanting a label, it’s struggling to fit in and being tired of it. Finding people like yourself is how you fit in, and if you fit with some people and they have a label, you checkup on it yourself and find an explanation of why you didn’t fit in in the first place.

    If you feel you fit in without knowing who you might fit in with, that is great, and you don’t need to have a label. But some people find it easier to find like minded people if they match labeles.











  • Szyler@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSelf-talk
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    3 months ago

    Definitely can be. It’s your body trying to control the future situations to not get emotionally hurt like you once did, by trying to map out all possible events. It just ends up as 10 negative thoughts instead of 1 potentially negative experience, so overall it is not good for you.



  • Szyler@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneTruth rule
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    4 months ago

    To add to this. The sensory experience of showers is a lot.

    1. being comfortable in your warm clothes
    2. having to take them off to get cold
    3. having to get wet and warm
    4. having to dry yourself with a rough (ish) towel
    5. Getting cold again
    6. Damp air makes it harder to breathe
    7. Putting on different clothes which potentially feels different from the used ones
    8. Getting out of the bathroom to non-humid air
    9. Coldness of the remaining water (hair etc) evaporating

    I also have sound sensitivities, so the sound of water hitting the floor is also disturbing.





  • Shouldn’t it be the other way? The gender staying a girl under boy conditions, until given a shock to then become a boy?

    If you go from girl to boy without changing temperature, you are moving horizontally from right to left, crossing the boundary from girl to boy, but without nucliation sites the transition does not occur.

    Same with water going left stays water until given a shock to become ice by changing temperature to be supercooled past the transition line.