The final purpose is to be happy with someone. With or without kids.

There is no true underlying purpose to a relationship. There are adventures to share together if you are both into them. But there doesn’t need to be some ulterior goal. Dating is just enjoying and wanting to spend time together.

Did you have another Lemmy account on leminal.space? If you did and are the same person I’m thinking of. You spend A LOT of time thinking and talking about relationships. And that account always came across like they wanted a relationship but didn’t want to put in any work to get one or work on themselves. They always spoke as if there was no hope and already prejudged women as if they never would like them.

This was a big deal when I started dating my current girlfriend. On quite a few occasions when planning dates or things for us to do with her daughter, I would bring up her daughter and think of her first before I thought of myself or my girlfriend. Or if my girlfriend would mention something about her daughter, I would always encourage her to take care of her daughter first and we could work out dates around her.

I knew that her daughter was her first priority, and I never asked her to put me before her daughter. Not once. It’s almost 3 years later, they moved in with me. And I’m loving the life together.

I started dating my current girlfriend when her daughter was 3. They just moved in with me over the summer. Her daughter is 6 now.

I’m loving the stepdad life.

Residential listings were “white pages” and businesses were “yellow pages.”

Yes, they were big, printed on very thin paper, with small typeface.

It’s a bit chicken and the egg. It’s a super popular handgun so therefore the accessories get made for it.

If another gun was as popular, you’d likely see the people who made this accessory make one for that gun instead.

I believe they are integrated into the handle and trigger. It’s not a switch that you turn on and off, just if you hold the gun in the proper way your are pressing in the safeties.

Everybody get up, it’s time to slam now

We got a real jam goin’ down

Welcome to the Space Jam

Oh yea. I just LOVE being able to hear EVERYTHING going on in the house. All the different TVs people are watching.

People around me put things out early with the expectation and hope someone will come and take it.

The only winning move is not to play

Mine was a hacked Google home mini (physical hack, not software) where I took the speaker out to an aux jack to have it loud enough.

I was in there for hours for all sorts of projects like engine and trans rebuilds.

I like having something in the garage. It’s in a place where I only stay when I’m working on something and my hands are super dirty. It can be isolated to a vlan by itself.

But if my hands are covered in oil. I like being able to yell at it to play music and not get one more thing dirty.

Illinois, in a suburb northwest of Chicago.

They have so much to borrow totally free. So many people think of libraries as just books, but they often are so much more.

Does this include any “library of things?” Because at my library I can check tools, thermal image cameras, tables, board games and all sorts of other things.

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To spell out s3xy. He’s a man child.

I think this really underpins that much of the internet is built on systems we assume will last forever.

The single TLD that changed it’s whois domain and let the old one expire was the cause.

Yea. But I still think she is pretty without it too.

This is like a Karen yelling you can’t do anything until I talk to your manager.

I ordered something like shampoo. It opened in the box and got everywhere. Amazon wanted me to return it for a refund. The box was soaked. No way I could have returned it.

PG&E says it won’t change until next cycle? Because why? It’s their fucking system. It’s not like they don’t have access to change things. It’s not in their policy? They’d have to do a little extra work to figure it out?

Fuck PG&E