• RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world
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        7 months ago

        Its a statement that applies everywhere. Regardless of where the damage may be coming from, if you cannot avoid the thing causing damage, then you cannot avoid the damage. Physical, mental, emotional, whatever.

        The “situation” is what you decide is going to lead to damage. Its up to you to determine if you can avoid it and how.

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    There are always signs, learn to look for them.

    I had some sketchy ass friends, when the cops started questioning me over things that happened because I was a “known associate” I realised that although I was squeaky clean, I was eventually going to catch accessory charges over some shit. So I packed my car and dipped to a new state for 4 years. I didnt stick my head in the sand and think “Im not involved, it wont happen” I was realistic that one day I was going to give one of them a lift and dude would have an intent to distribute in his backpack.

    Dont be ignorant in the first place, keep your eyes open and think about the possibilities.

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    Saying “I don’t know enough about this to comment” is an answer when asked to comment on something. Also be willing to change your mind when presented with new information. Tangentially, don’t hold it against someone when their opinions change.

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    7 months ago

    I like to remind myself Tim Minchin’s song “The Fence” and remember that I don’t always have to have the answer or the opinion on every single topic. https://vimeo.com/410679852

    Basically, I say to myself: sometimes it’s ok to be ignorant - as long as I’m aware that I’m ignorant.

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    The same way the world kept covid in check - by relying on others to be well informed, rational, responsible, and empathetic people.

    Oh, wait - millions of people died because of wishful thinking, selfishness, disinformation, stupidity, and good old fashioned stubbornness. We’re fucked.

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    Learn from past mistakes. Learn from the mistakes of others. Learn to recognize the warnings you missed before.

    To paraphrase Nelson Mandela, you don’t lose. You win or you learn.

  • oshitwaddup@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz
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    7 months ago

    Proactively seek out relevant info, proactively update based on new information, and murphy-jutsu/pre-hindsight (imagine the situation has failed horribly. What went wrong?), to name a few things that help