Seems it was a micro or just a verbal aggression or something like that?

Microaggression is a term used for commonplace verbal, behavioral or environmental slights, whether intentional or unintentional

I am at fault for wording that can and has been taken in the negative.

I should have thought of a more productive and positive response.

I thank you for taking the time to explain the problem in my ways ad wording, while directly telling me.

I hope to continue to grow and learn and to be mindful of wording.