This is my life every time I try to talk about the ADHD I’ve struggled with since childhood. “Oh everyone has that issue!” Well then maybe “everyone” has ADHD to some degree? I don’t have a fuckin monopoly on it.
I think the thing is that “everyone” is wired to gather berries and run from predators and “mental illness” is our brain saying “I hate this, where did all the berries go?”
Like if you tried to make the family cat push buttons for 8 hours and it refused to do so you wouldn’t say it had a mental disorder, you would say it has a brain evolved to fit a cat’s needs. Why are people with brains evolved to fit a human’s needs any different?
I agree that the complicated and abstract lifestyle most of us lead factor into our well-being and mental state, but I think it is extremely reductionist to say all mental illness stems from this issue.
Heartily agree, I was needlessly hyperbolic there.
Right? It’s like yeah maybe they’ve experienced these symptoms to a degree at times. But is it demonstrably affecting their ability to function in life? Maybe ADHD.
A very helpful video I recently found.
The modern workplace absolutely sucks for neurodivergent people. One size fits all and you’re expected to just deal with the fact that your brain is constantly begging for you to stop.
One day I’m going to find that off switch.
