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minus-squareXeroxchasechase@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down12·3 months agoOh well, I should’ve known it’d come to this… Anyway, you might want to chill on victimsing her and dismissing her agency. Or better yet, you can just take a sincere question at face value…
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up12·edit-22 months agoA father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her. I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it. Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim. We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
minus-squareXeroxchasechase@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·2 months agoThanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
minus-squareWirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up6·2 months agoAh I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations. Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.
minus-squareCrikeste@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down5·3 months agoI did take the question at face value, the face value was disgusting. You have big “grab them by the pussy, they let you do it” energy.
Oh well, I should’ve known it’d come to this… Anyway, you might want to chill on victimsing her and dismissing her agency. Or better yet, you can just take a sincere question at face value…
A father-daughter dynamic means he had full control over her formative years and had full ability to groom her.
I highly doubt he was a normal parent for 18 years then suddenly acted creepy and she was just ok with it.
Without speaking to her as a person, it’s certain that if something’s happening it’s the result of grooming, therefore making her an SA victim.
We can recognize that as the tragedy it is and still think she’s a bad person for other reasons, these aren’t mutually exclusive.
Thanks. It’s obvious she was raised in an abusive family, but still surprise me. I definitely did’nt mean to blame the victim, just understand.
Ah I understand, sorry for being blunt but there’s a lot of people acting in bad faith when they question victim’s actions in abusive situations.
Rule of thumb is once abuse is involved, don’t assume people will react rationally, you may accidentally say something insensitive.
I did take the question at face value, the face value was disgusting. You have big “grab them by the pussy, they let you do it” energy.
Huh?