I grew up in (foreign) country A but then moved back to my home country (B) with my parents. I plan to move back to country A eventually because I feel 100% at home in the culture there, but am just a bit unsure about the timing. The problem is that I’d like to get into dating (I’m 21) and country A has a really low amount of people of my type, whereas the country I’m originally from (B) has plenty (but I only feel 70-80% at home here). So I’m thinking I might postpone my move back to country A where this won’t really be possible until in a couple of years when I’m more happy to settle down. I wanted to ask you older folks if you think this is a wise idea.
You enjoy the “culture” but not half the individuals comprising the gender. Reason and your (valid) feelings aren’t adding up. You shouldn’t make any major changes until you’ve more clarity. And, perhaps that clarity will come through the dating process.