Apparently I don’t have the mods account it’s just verified on the app. Seems like mods on certain comms just make up whatever placeholder reasoning when you don’t break the rules. I thought you had to blame the victim to victim blame and my post didn’t blame anyone for anything.

  • PixelPilgrim@lemmings.worldOP
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    15 hours ago

    I have accept who I am? How am I being inconsiderate asshole? I generally think it’s nice to actually care enough to give advice

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      11 hours ago

      Are you for real? :D I can see now you haven’t accepted yourself for who you are, as you cannot see the fault in yourself here. But maybe saying “you are an inconsiderate asshole” is wrong, as I don’t even know you, but rather that you constantly come across as an inconsiderate asshole. Like did you at all stop to think how your “advice” (that you so graciously have gifted the OOP with) might be perceived by someone in their position? Can you at all place yourself into “their shoes” so to say and gauge how your actions (or rather words in this case) might make them feel? It’s ok if you don’t, I can’t do that always, but I acknowledge that as a personal shortcoming.

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        10 hours ago

        Yeah it’s funny that everyone trying to give me a taste of my own medicine with their spin. Like yeah I empathize with them and I’m trying to help and it actually came from my personal life.

        You’ll accept the different kinds of people that exist in this world maybe not today.

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          10 hours ago

          If you empathize with them, then why are you being such a fucking cunt? In my eyes that’s even worse than not being able to empathize, that’s just being a fucking cunt.