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Cake day: December 10th, 2025

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  • It’s just kinda funny we make men piss in troughs cock out side by side while women have always been given the dignity of a door. We really did just go “idk you guys are animals figure it out piss in this hole next to that other pissing guy”

    Which is why I always stan a properly built gender neutral bathroom with floor to ceiling doors for everyone. Bliss. Pee in privacy, my toilet is my kingdom.











  • True wealth is fairly quiet, just look how understated a Birkin bag is. No big logo, no patterned proprietary fabric. To me the posturing of luxury brand names in everyday aesthetic is very much a pissing contest/visual flex by people who dont understand that the really luxury shit is from places that make you wait to be invited before you can even buy it

    Not saying I love any of that mess, I detest the concept of “upper class” vs “lower class” like that and I think 20,000 for a handbag is stupid when that’s someones college tuition but that is my observation.


  • Things ARE bad right now. We have a horrible wealth gap, we are deep into late stage capitalism, enshittification is rampant and climate change looms on our horizon

    That said: do yourself a favour and learn more about terrible times in human history and the things people did to survive.

    People have lived through horrible awful times and still found a way to continue on, find joy, survive, have small victories. I stopped spiraling out about how depressing the future looked when I learned more about the past… it shows you we are resilient. We are adaptible. We find a way. We WILL find a way. Just dont allow yourself to give into the despair–find the things you need to ground yourself, find your small victories, genuinely smell the roses and enjoy what you can. Look into taoism and concepts like finding inner peace among chaos. It helps a lot, trust.

    Stay angry and stay vocal about our circumstances but dont let it steal the time you have on this earth, there is a lot here still to spark happiness and contentment.


  • You will go through natural hormonal cycles in your life that will kick up with things like diet and hygiene but unfortunately hormones will rule all.

    That said, cutting down on sugar and milk helped for me (PCOS so hormonal-driven acne)

    Otherwise just keep your face clean, moisturize, try ro get some sun (within reason, dont give yourself melanoma). Exfoliate every once in a while for dead skin, change your sheets/pillowcases/towels often and keep them clean.

    I have a lot of success using cerave products in Canada for dry skin, but skincare is massive now and the world is your oyster. The Ordinary has something for basically everything now.

    Also keep in mind depending on facial hair you could be seeing ingrowns from bad shaving technique (against the grain, not enough glide, etc)