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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • My grandpa is ~10 years retired after working as a pharmacist his whole career. He’s calling my parents every month, asking for help with his rent and groceries because he can’t afford both at once with his retirement and social security payments.

    Mind you, my grandmother did taxes and financials for small businesses, so it’s not like my grandparents weren’t set up. But my grandma’s health went down, hospital bills ate all of their savings, and now that she’s passed, my grandpa can’t afford anything.

    It’s not so black and white as “save more and just be healthy”. Not even close


  • There was a game in the early 2000s that my family and I liked to play called Scene It. It was a DVD with accompanying board game - pretty cool. We had both a Disney and a Music one. I don’t know if my music trivia still holds up, but I was an absolute champ at that game. I’d beat my parents hand over fist despite them being alive for a lot more of the events the trivia asked about.

    In a similar vein, I am incredible at the Jackbox game Fibbage. On both sides, the trivia and the lying and suckering people in >:B


  • The Lion King was really special for me. Incredible performance and insane sets and costumes.

    I also recently saw Moulin Rouge and that was an absolute blast - unfortunately accoustics were a bit rough.

    For concerts

    • Kim Petras was a total blast and the visuals were wild.
    • The Dead South put on an incredible show.
    • Shawn James is the only one I’ve had a truly psychedelic experience with.
    • And Black Tiger Sex Machine. It wasn’t only them, I think there were 5 or 6 DJs that also played. But holy shit, it was non-stop from 6pm to midnight. I was so sore the next day, haha


  • My parents flew in for a two week visit and good god I cannot wait for them to leave. Distance has not made this heart grow fonder and despite years of therapy, it’s still so hard to deal with this or set boundaries before them.

    They’re unbelievably selfish. Ridiculous alcoholics. They hate each other but won’t break up, which just means they’re both so annoying. And they are so, so childish.

    My younger self deserves so many hugs for going through life with them. And my adult self is struggling but doing the best they can. But they’ll be gone soon. Thank goodness





  • They don’t hurt per se. I think it’s different per person, but I feel it in my ears first, like I’m flexing them and making them rumble, then I get the sound of static and then my eyes feel like they involuntarily look left and right. I also kinda feel a little bit of a tingle across the top of my head or my brain - so I do get the zap of them as well. This all happens within maybe half a second or less, but it’s multiple times a minute.

    Not truly life altering, but the combination of ear rumbles and eye movements are making me hella dizzy all day