Yes, you’re the asshole.
Stop jerkin off to people you know by creeping on their social media, it’s mentally unhealthy, it shows your lack of empathy in your relationship, it shows a lack of self control, it shows a lack of respect for the people you creep on, and it’s unethical to do it without those people’s permission.
“On 21 May 2008, XBMC developer Elan Feingold forked the source code of XBMC and started a new project called Plex”
GPL v2 source.
They’ve long been suspected of being greedy lil GPL violaters.
https://trac.ffmpeg.org/ticket/2974