transfem sysadmin that’s tired from working at work
Engaged to my lovely fiancé
Late 20s
Computer nerd by trade, not a programmer.
Thigh high socks are life

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Cake day: August 12th, 2025

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  • Hey Smorty!!! :D

    Thank u for the nice comment, I been smiling lots each time I read it, but I struggle lots with making a reply (I do it to lots of my friends 2, bad habit but choosing words to say back can be scary :<)

    I’m really happy tho that u like my posts n comments <3

    I been going thru a lot, dealing with family health stuff no fun at all but I wanted to help and that sucked away my energy ;-; But I try 2 rest, just very slow recharge and work not helping- at least I with safe ppl so I’m ok

    How is Smorty doing? ^^



  • Ahhh spicy is not the right word I realize , but i meant to compliment on ur writing style which is nice n refreshing :)

    Also thank u! I’m happy in meeting u too! It is rare but nice meeting ppl on places like here where ppl can be nice~

    I do like ur pfp (I saw that clippy went away)- that looks like a nice drawing 😊 But also, it could be neat to see a self drawn fluttershy :3

    Also thank u Smorty! It is daytime and I’ll try my best to have a nice day :) I wish u a nice day or evening or nighttime too, ur amazing by being u!




  • Omg omg haiii Smorty!!! :D

    Pinkie pie is my fav character so I made it my pfp 😊

    I love coming across ur comments btw (esp the spicy ones 2), they kinda encourage me to try n make comments when I has the energy to do it too!!

    Also, I’m so happy to hear u might wanna update ur pfp cuz of me! U totally can do it 100%!! I love seeing colourful ponies around and they make me happy when I see them so that’s sorta why I have pinkie pie here!! 🩷🩵🤍














  • Yeah, that’s fair. I don’t really have family supports to fall back on and I just built up a small emergency fund for the first time so it’s not a serious consideration as much as it is nice to daydream about, especially since I feel like I’m able to also find routines and purpose for myself if not for my lack of independent wealth or support structure (beyond my partner that I wouldn’t want to just live off of)

    The work-life balance has been a big struggle of going back and forth on getting to saner hours while also having a bunch of mental health stuff going on from not dealing with earlier in life and starting a job search since the company I’m at might fold. I know I’m not alone and I am in a privileged position having employment, but as someone that is easily overwhelmed and struggling mentally, the escape from responsibility is a nice thought in a vacuum.

    I am starting the process of seeking help now that I can afford it, but it’s more “work” to do anyways.

    I’m sorry for the wall of text, but yeah rationally it’s not wise to just not be employed, though it’s at least a nice daydream that’ll stay that way hopefully.