nickwitha_k (he/him)

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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • Finland was no NATO and not even the USSR touch it.

    If you omit the middle of the 20th century, sure. The Finns declared independence from the Russian Empire in 1917, under the approval of the Bolsheviks’ Declaration of the Rights of the Peoples of Russia. In 1934, Finland and the USSR reaffirmed a non-aggression pact for 10 years. In 1939, after penning a deal with Hitler to carve up Europe between the Nazis and the USSR, Stalin demanded that Finland, who had maintained a stance of neutrality, cede territory for military use and, when they refused, ordered shelling and invasion.

    Neutrality or even open trade did not prevent the USSR from invading then, not did handing over nukes save Ukraine from invasion in 2014.











  • How’s your communication? Is she aware of how you’ve been feeling? You state that you told her that you’re fed up but, have you actually talked to her about it?

    How about the kids? Are you taking on responsibilities there? How about around the house?

    Biggest suggestion would be that you two do couples therapy. Accept that it may not resolve everything but, it may help to repair civility, should divorce be in the future, you’ll need that for co-parenting.