The biggest thing a women can do to turn me on is make me feel desired and wanted. It can be a simple compliment like “I love seeing you in that shirt”. Or something more overt like pulling her panties to the side because she doesnt want to waste time taking them off.
That certainly works, yeah, lol. I’m definitely into mutual enjoyment of it all. So if a girl I’m thirsting for shows me that she’s just as into it as I am, well it doesn’t get much hotter than that.