• unknownuserunknownlocation@kbin.earth
    134·
    2 months ago

    > on 4chan

    > not doing anything absurdly creepy, racist or disgusting

    > I’m seriously the most pathetic person on this board.

    This person is one of the least pathetic people on that board.

  • Nangijala@feddit.dkEnglish
    461·
    2 months ago

    Ugly and low IQ Severe Depression

    I hope anon gets some help. It’s hard to find your way out of that bleakness once you’re there. I speak from experience, and it IS possible to get better. Self worth takes a lifetime to build if your parents didn’t make the fundament for it in you. It’s still worth working on it.

    It’s okay to not be the perfect adult, when you have barely learned what adulthood is. It’s okay to be a late bloomer. It’s okay to be uncertain. It’s okay to do life at your own pace. But don’t let the bleakness win. No matter how shite it gets, it won’t last forever and you will find the way back from that pit. Even if it happens at such a slow and sluggish pace, that you don’t even notice the improvements from day to day.

    I wish I could give anon a hug. Been there too, buddy.

  • coolie4@lemmy.world
    516·
    2 months ago

    So no disability? Just “ugly” and “low IQ”?

    Ugly is no barrier to success. And it’s written too well to be from someone with an IQ so low that it holds them back.

    Anon is probably just lazy or more likely scared of the leaving their comfort zone.

    Real and pathetic.

    • glimse@lemmy.world
      12·
      2 months ago

      Or…depressed for so long they started believe it. It’s 4chan so if it’s even real, that’s way more likely

    • weeeeum@lemmy.worldEnglish
      113·
      2 months ago

      To me it kinda sounds like covert narcissism “I’m so awful dumb pathetic and terrible I won’t ever accomplish anything” and uses it as an excuse to be a lazy pos. A lot like boogie2988. Does it to drum up empathy, to enable his lazyness and uselessness.

      • FluorideMind@lemmy.world
        32·
        2 months ago

        Sounds like adhd to me. You ever busted your ass working hard at a job and when finished, your boss it’s just disappointed in the whole thing? Imagine that’s your entire life. You start to avoid doing anything.

    • Jolteon@lemmy.zip
      71·
      2 months ago

      I’ve found that “you’re not stupid, you’re just lazy” applies to most people who claim to be stupid.

      • Varesti@lemmy.zip
        3·
        2 months ago

        Hey, don’t listen to them OP, I think you’re fully capable of being stupid AND lazy.

      • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
        3·
        2 months ago

        Having met genuinely stupid people I wish they had this level of self-awareness and would stay out of the way. Generally speaking though they insert themselves into every possible situation.

        • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          2 months ago

          yep. this is why when stupid people are around you… the best thing you can do is just leave.

          because you can’t fix them, and they will just drag you down to their level and take it as a personal insult if you dare suggest a smarter way to do things.

    • currycourier@lemmy.world
      2·
      2 months ago

      I mean it does make some things more difficult, but its more of a speed bump than a barrier. And a lot of the time decently attractive people will convince themselves they’re ugly cause it helps justify their inaction.

    • sidebro@lemmy.zipEnglish
      1·
      2 months ago

      Right, now they just have to want to change their situation and they will be all right. That’s the harder part, but probably always doable.

  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.mlEnglish
    4·
    2 months ago

    You know who was motivated? Hitler. I bet everyone wished he stayed in his mom’s basement painting back in the day.