The Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to Microblog Memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 6 months agoYou had to hold it up to a candle.startrek.websiteimagemessage-square377fedilinkarrow-up11.58Karrow-down135
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minus-squarepete_the_cat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down1·6 months agoShe has helped me out with stuff (school wise, life wise, financially, etc…) more times than I can count so I seem and feel like an ungrateful asshole if I just flat out say that.
minus-squarerichieadler@lemmy.myserv.onelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 months agoIf you feel you owe her, don’t complain. If you need the feel to complain, do something about it. You can’t have it both ways.
minus-squarepete_the_cat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 months agoI do say something about it, but help her regardless. You can be annoyed about something but still help regardless of that fact.
minus-squarerichieadler@lemmy.myserv.onelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·6 months agoComplain to her only, then.
She has helped me out with stuff (school wise, life wise, financially, etc…) more times than I can count so I seem and feel like an ungrateful asshole if I just flat out say that.
If you feel you owe her, don’t complain.
If you need the feel to complain, do something about it.
You can’t have it both ways.
I do say something about it, but help her regardless. You can be annoyed about something but still help regardless of that fact.
Complain to her only, then.