I didn’t need to hear it because I lived it and already knew the reality for non white kids growing up here. I didn’t need a middle aged white man telling me how it is. And I’d rather cut someone like that out of my life for myself, my kids weren’t born then, and they aren’t going to hear that story.

Your coyote analogy is flawed. This wasn’t an immediate threat that I ignored.

I know what my job is as a parent, probably better than you do.