• superkret@feddit.org
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    25 days ago

    Why is it so hard to just believe people, jfc…

    I’m not a doctor, I fix computer issues. But the people having the issues do lie all the fucking time, because they want to shift blame, get faster service, or simply hide the mistakes they made.
    I could imagine it’s similarly frustrating for doctors.

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      25 days ago

      Reminds me of ER doctors saying that somehow men always seem to fall onto all sorts of things when they sit down naked and those things get accidentally lodged up their asses.

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        25 days ago

        Yeah, it would be so much better if everybody was just upfront about it during anamnesis:

        How, do you think, did this contraption become lodged in your rectum?
        I put it up my ass.
        Why did you put it up there?
        It was an experiment.
        What was the purpose of this experiment?
        To find out what I can put up my ass.

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      25 days ago

      Those situations really aren’t comparable…

      You can’t justifiably refuse to treat people begging for help just because you’re jaded, that’s how you get people killed. Medical care is meant to involve empathetic support, not suspicion and accusations at every turn.

      It’s fine to be on the look out for people lying, but you can’t assume everyone is the second you meet them, that’s literally the opposite of what a doctor is meant to do.

      I’d be willing to bet you do more digging to find out what’s actually going on than many doctors do, who will just show you the door instead of taking you seriously.

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        I used to watch this documentary about an amazing doctor who was exactly as described but it was both comedic and effective. It did always seem that once they got to the truth, it was always lupus. Or was it never lupus? I forget.