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Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 1 month ago

What's something people should stop idolising/ romanticising?

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What's something people should stop idolising/ romanticising?

Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 1 month ago
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  • AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space
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    Nature as idyllic harmony, in the Rousseauvian sense. In reality, nature is metal as fuck. (As Werner Herzog put it, the birds aren’t singing, they’re screaming in pain and terror.)

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      I read that in his voice.

      In the same vein “natural” products. Arsenic is a natural product. Just fucking tell me what’s in it and where it came from and stop trying to mislead me.

      • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.networkBanned
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        • psyvibe@lemm.ee
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          Beautiful. I was looking for a good animal venom!

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    • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOP
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      Yep there’s a lot of things that can literally kill and maim you . It’s constantly trying to hurt you and is powerful AF

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  • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOP
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    Poverty. It’s fucking shit. You live in constant fear, fear of not being able to eat, losing your home, and one breakage wiping you out for months or years. You live day to day or week to week, your life revolves around money and you might have to take shitty treatment from employers cos you don’t have options. The poor really do pay more. There’s a reason that it’s called the poverty trap and not the poverty easily escapable zone.

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      Can you share some examples of poverty being romanticized? What comes to my mind is how there seems to be a lot of emphasis and appreciation for folks who are able to escape it, but that doesn’t seem too bad to me. Stories about poverty don’t make me romanticize poverty, they make me appreciate what I have. I don’t disagree with what you said. Just looking for the connection.

      • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.networkBanned
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        • ieatpwns@lemmy.world
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          Didnt she also reuse needles for sick kids?

  • Bieren@lemmy.world
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    Politicians. Athletes. Celebrities.

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      I agree with the politicians and celebtrities, but why athletes?

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      +1

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    People’s right to their opinions.

    You’re allowed to believe complete horseshit.

    You’re allowed to be an outright Nazi.

    The fact the government won’t kick your teeth in does not vindicate such unforgiveable ignorance. You can be an asshole for holding certain opinions. You are entitled to believe things, and to say things, which mark you as dangerous, untrustworthy, intolerable, or dumb as a bag of hammers.

    Never let ‘you can’ serve as an excuse. Some people are just wrong. Some people are complete assholes. Some people are fucking Nazis. You don’t have to respect one word that comes out of their mouths. All they’ve got is “it’s not illegal for me to be this dense.”

    And hey, sometimes? Maybe it should be illegal. A lot of other countries do not in fact allow you to be an outright Nazi. We don’t have to entertain any slippery-slope nonsense, to acknowledge some assholes want genocidal bigotry, and letting them spread that desire is a direct threat to millions of innocent people. If “I am going to kill you with this knife” isn’t protected speech - “we are going to put you all in death camps” is not better.

    When the response to “I would defend to the death your right to say that” is “I would make sure you die for doing so,” reconsider.

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    • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.alOP
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      My granddads fought I’m ww2 so I can’t agree more. It’s horrendous, not glamorous or exciting, it’s devastating

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    Religion.

    To consider antireligion instead of atheism
    The harm of religion is historically evident whereas the presence or absence of gods is not. Ultimately, the continued existence of religion is predicated on the indoctrination of children and suppression of rational thought. Therefore I am against religion but not necessarily against the idea of gods. For all we know gods are computer scientists and we are in their video game. —https://www.arscyni.cc/file/antireligion.html

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      • arsCynic@beehaw.org
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        Before investing some time in a reply, have you read the essay that’s linked?

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          • arsCynic@beehaw.org
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            Thanks for saving me the time of arguing a LLM.

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    Wealth and the past

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    Being rich.

    As long as there are people without a home or who live in a permanent state of anxiety, then being rich is unethical. Solving the problem of disproportionate hoarding—greed—should be humanity’s current prime directive because it’s the cause of nearly all our problems.

    - -
    ✍︎ arscyni.cc: modernity ∝ nature.

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    Vampires.

    Werewolves are clearly superior.

    ^this comment paid for by the Big Bad Wolf^

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        Now that’s overkill

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    Promiscuity

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      What is wrong with promiscuity as long as you are not in a monogamous relationship?

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        Nothing wrong with it, but I don’t think we should idolize it. If some people choose that kind of life, they should be free to. I don’t think it should be encouraged though

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            Sure, for women, but having lots of sexual partners is idolized for men

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      Same for monogamy. We shouldnt put people in boxes

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    Depression and suicide

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      Oh god yes. It’s horrible to live with depression, and suicide is brutal and of course permanent.

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    Regime whores and owners of the regime

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    • The wealthy
    • Space
    • Planetary colonization (e.g. Mars)

    These are all bad for the same reason; they’re all trying to kill you.

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    Vigilantism. People can barely deal with infestations without training/discipline, let alone justice.

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