• FuglyDuck@lemmy.world
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    … 40’s are middle aged adults.

    “Young” is 18-19, maybe mid 20’s.

    Stop infantilizing entire generations of grown-ass adults

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      This makes me think of Sen. Strom Thurmond, who when he was in his 80s it came out he had an affair when he was in his 40s, and he said it was no big deal, that it was just a “youthful indiscretion”.

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        Was that about when Elsie mae Williams came out as his secret daughter ? Her mom was 15 when Williams was born…

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      Chill out my dude. Saying someone is young in the context of their peers isn’t “infantilizing” anyone.

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        no. first. you’re wrong it is.

        You see, people past their fifties still treat me like a child… even though I’ve maintained two steady careers- simultaneously, because fuck this economy- for nearly two decades now. I am a grown-ass adult, and you do not get to dismiss, patronize or indeed infantilize me just because I happen to have a different opinion than you. that’s just being ageist.

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      Infantilizing.

      Good God Lemmy, not everything is a condition/syndrome/loaded action.

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        1. did I say that? no. I didn’t.
        2. I know many 18 YO’s who are far more mature than a certain ex president, and at least as mature as the current one. age is an extremely poor indicator of one’s maturity, capability or the quality of their experience.
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          Who cares? It doesn’t matter that “18 years olds are on the battlefield”.

          Knife cuts both ways. I know 90 years olds more cognizant than some 20 year olds.

          I don’t want either of them leading a nation

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            Yeah? I never mentioned warfare, those were other commenters.

            The knife cuts both ways, but only one way is constitutionally sanctioned. Funny how that works.

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              Because the majority of 35 and under don’t have the experience in life or law or professionalism to hold an elder statesman position? They can still be elected to the house of reps to earn that experience. Or hold state offices.

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                1. once again… that’s not what I’m saying. Stop putting words in my mouth. Stop running off tangents. I am saying that it’s possible to be too old in the same way that it’s possible to be too young… and that the individuals in question are not “young” at all, and acting like they’re young is a problem.
                2. majority of all Americans don’t have the qualifications you list. Should we amend the constitution to only allow lawyers to run things? Or perhaps we should just create a political caste and call it good?
                3. it’s not the amount of experience that matters. It’s the quality and relevance. When you’re sole requirement is quantity of experience, you wind up with old farts whose majority of experience predate the modern world. (More than 3/4’s of Biden’s life has been without modern social media. More than half without the WWW.)
                4. there are other qualities that also matter- like having a new idea. Biden has been part of the government for longer than I’ve been alive. Our govnernment has stagnated with people like him and Feinstein and McConnel in control. In every organization, leadership reaches a plateau where it’s difficult to grow past. You need new leadership- new ideas to leave that plateau.
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                  Professionalism-> experience in a professional environment.

                  But the fact you’ve stooped to insults tells me you have no actual argument, so that’s nice